The Charisma Report

Sensational Gospel Artiste, Charisma Churns out a praise song to show gratitude to Almighty God for a year well spent.  Watch Lyrics Video Here: 

•        DATING What is dating? It is a workshop in which you can help develop the skills needed to achieve a positive intimate relationship in marriage. Good reasons for dating •        For personality development •        To know and understand the other person better •        To fill human need for love •        To fill social needs for recreation and fun •        To find a future marriage partner •        To develop spiritual growth Wrong Reasons for Dating -           For material gain -           For sexual activities -           For prestige -           To make someone...

  This topic is a one most people are not ready for because Narcissists can be the most complicated people ever. But how long shall we keep postponing? It is time to take a deep closer look at this group of people because they are everywhere. It could be your partner, your friend, family or even you. The most interesting thing here is, these people do not know that they are Narcissists. Funny, right? Let me bring you up the pace so we can get in the depth of this topic.  First, Who are Narcissists?  You would have heard this word before or you might have used it to describe someone or people you've met. I've done that too. However, most people misunderstand this Narcissist thingy. The truth is a little different from what we think it is, It is not all about being selfish or self-centred. According to BetterHelp, A narcissist isn't just someone who thinks about themselves, it is someone who has an extremely exaggerated view of themselves and a very strong need for others t...

 A group of ballers in Enugu is staging one of the best parties ever hosted in Nigeria.  The Edge 2020 Unbothered Party organised by Coal City Connect Group is set to hold on the 20th of December 2020 @ Richcrest hotel (Pool Side) featuring 18+ games, dance competition, music, undiluted and uncensored fun.  Gate pass is just a token of 1k. Your debit alert is the gate pass!!!!! 

 New Haven Carnival 2020 an epoch making event is set to hold on the 17th of December 2020 @ New Haven Primary School, Enugu.  The event is to be studded with the best of the best. The likes of Fireboy, J Martins, Jay Jay Okocha, Dj Okay, Ill Bliss, Dj fx2, Mc 4God, Comedian Sirfair, Mc Igbokwe, Mc Franchise, Ogbanje Hypeman, Sydok, and a host of other amazing acts.  Gate is 500 naira flat so get ready to ball!! It's a carnival something.. 

  QUALITIES TO LOOK FOR IN A PROSPECTIVE WIFE AND A PROSPECTIVE HUSBAND “MARRIAGE IS A MAJOR LIFE DECISION” - Marriage is something that will influence and affect one’s life both in this world and in the world to come therefore before making the great decision. God must be involved to make a happy home. Never rush into marriage , make sure he/she meets your inspired expectations, for thousand are mated but not matched. E.G WHITE says. That “the path of married life may appear beautiful and full of happiness but you may be disappointed as thousands of others have been”. Therefore before you enter into marriage examine carefully by asking the following questions: Will this union help me forward? Will it increase my love for God? Will it enlarge my sphere of usefulness in this life? Answers to these questions will determine your happiness in married life. Make sure the individual you are planning to marry is ...

  I knew a day like this would come but why that particular day? I was supposed to be celebrating my 45th and not regretting a stupid mistake. It was unreal. I blame my mother-in-law for everything.  I watched as Dayo sniffed the peanut butter cake and he took a careless bite. “I said she showed me what you wrote,” He said and stuttered like he was still trying to understand what he said. I stared at Doctor Fumi behind me, such a beautiful devil. She could kill you and weep the most at your funeral.  She was expressionless. A fly could perch on her face, and she won't move. Her guts to even stand before me.  ''Mo kú oh. I'm dead.'' I muttered and shook my head with a faint smile. My head was spinning, my heart racing, I wonder who else she told about this. My heart, ah. I did not know how to feel. Fumilayo has finished me. “ How could you?” My voice was cold and angry. She hesitated and furrowed her eyebrows. “How could I do what?” She replied, pretending like h...

Having to trust an individual is not any joke. Trust is a fundamental part of life and it isn't given to only anyone. This is often having confidence in a person and choosing to be vulnerable. For a few people, trusting is straightforward and not an enormous deal; once you're on the brink of them, they believe you. On the opposite hand, some folks don't trust. They find it hard to be confident in anyone including life partners. These type of individuals have Trust Issues. Most times, Trust Issues show up as a defence mechanism. You're hurt from a past relationship or an experience and it comes naturally to not trust people any longer. This is okay and normal, it is nothing physically wrong. This issue however can get so bad that it affects your intimate, social and even personal life in a way that you don't know. This post assumes you discover yourself in this condition and searching to understand more about it. Read on to find out about the explanations (reasons) y...

       "We fell in love!" It sounds so sweet and alluring. They say it's the sweetest thing that can ever happen to a man or a woman. Alright friend, snap back to reality as we discuss love, obsessions and expectations, placing them in categories, so that you would understand better. After this, I don't think we would have too many questions. So, shall we disagree to agree?          Many people complain bitterly about their partners when they have conversations with their friends. They are like, "how can a man claim he loves you and still sleep with your best friend, while he is literally married to you? I mean, I have been married to Billy for seven years now and he is suddenly not attracted to me anymore. Where did I go wrong?" Someone once said this to me, "Jay, I'm really trying to keep it together. Bisola and I were engaged, hoping to get married after the next three months. Why will she elope with another man after all the money I spent...

I felt the world around me stop for a minute. Everyone was waiting for me to speak up but my throat went dry, I could hardly feel saliva in my mouth. The sitting room was pin-drop silent, I could hear the clock ticking. Doctor Fumi tossed the diary to my side and crossed her arms standing right in front of me. I bent my head in regret as I stared at her shoes, my old red diary on my thighs. I felt so messed up. My daughters were sensitive enough to excuse us after they exchanged questioning glances. Then I opened the diary, feeling every part of the pages soaked with depressing thoughts of my early days. My late father gifted the diary to me on the day before he passed on. He instructed that I write positive things only but I did not keep to his wishes. As soon as my last marriage turned sour, it became a book of my darkest secrets and deep bad thoughts.  “I also read it. How could you, Tinu?” She said, “I thought you loved your son! I thought you loved Dayo!”. She was not 'scoldin...